7 PREPARATIONS NARCISSISTS MAKE BEFORE THEY DISCARD YOU:

 7 PREPARATIONS NARCISSISTS MAKE BEFORE THEY DISCARD YOU:

1. They emotionally detach first
They become cold, distant, and less responsive while still keeping you around for convenience.
2. They line up replacement supply
A new person (or several) is quietly groomed to step in the moment you’re removed.
3. They rewrite the story about you
They begin framing you as “difficult,” “unstable,” or “the problem” to justify what’s coming.
4. They provoke reactions on purpose
They push your buttons so they can later point to your reactions as proof you’re “crazy.”
5. They withdraw affection and support
Love, intimacy, reassurance, and consistency are slowly removed to weaken you emotionally.
6. They collect leverage
Your vulnerabilities, mistakes, or private confessions are mentally stored to use against you.
7. They prepare to disappear without accountability
Plans are made so they can exit suddenly, deny responsibility, and act like you never mattered.